What is failure
Trends – as in history repeating itself – is quite something to study. There are trends in history – one need look no further than the current state of the ‘free’ world – and there are trends in business as in training and many things one can watch on Instagram and almost all other social media.
One of the current trends this writer has been exposed to is the use, need and benefits of FAILURE.
Sadly (in this writers opinion) in the world of mass education, failure is often portrayed as BAD, TERRIBLE, LIFE THREATENING, LIFE ENDING or worse. This writers personal experience with subjective FAILURE was first noticed when I accidently got my partner pregnant. Not a major issue other than the fact we were not married, we came from fairly different backgrounds – her father was a minister of the Church and this writer is Jewish – and when I though back to my relatively conservative education getting a young lady pregnant out of wedlock was equal to going bankrupt, both of which were such bad life choices that suicide was considered an acceptable escape.
Good to see how that trend has changed.
Today there are many trainers, motivators and influencers on social media, as well as business coaches and venture capitalists who will not even look at someone or their business unless they can prove they have failed.
For this writer I find this amusing and negative. If someone asked me if I have ever failed my answer would be no. I have never failed, but I have learned a large number of ways not to do certain things (even if I do still do some of those things).
The reason I do not see myself as having ever failed is because from my perspective failure comes with a number of negative connotations, yet the lessons I have learned from my multiple attempts – sometimes subjectively seen as failures by others – are invaluable.
For example, one thing I have learned is that some ‘failures’ – such as getting my girlfriend pregnant while bankrupt – gifted me with a wonderful child who brings much joy to my life (as do his brothers who were born when I was married). Another lesson learned from the failure of my first attempt at business is that killing oneself would potentially deprive one of all the fun and games that can come from the lessons learned through a business not working and applying those lessons to future endeavors that may work out differently.
To this writer FAILURE, like sexy or love – is in the eye of the beholder. If one looks at subjective failure in the way Thomas Edison reputedly did, then failure does not exist, instead failure teaches one a number of lessons and tests one’s resolve to find better working options.
If however one views the world as a place where perfection is required and where any placement other than being number 1 is a failure, then in the philosophy of this writer, life is very likely going to be more challenging, more destructive and more depressing and less fulfilling than necessary.
At SignForce we are fortunate that the number of signage failures we have had is measurable on one hand (maybe two if I have to jog my memory sufficiently), but we have had great lessons from each of these so called failures, which contribute to the value and quality of the signs we offer to all our customers.
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